Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Jill Brooks -- Belgium (Home Club: Salem)

November 24, 2014

It is hard to keep track of everything that has happened since the last time I wrote. In that time, I took a trip to Croatia, changed host families, and visited Normandy as well as a bunch of places amazing in Belgium.

My host family situation is a bit unique- My second host mom is my first host dad's ex wife. As their son is in the USA right now, they both took it upon each of their separate families to host me. Although at first I was a bit apprehensive to change host families, especially as I had really begun to feel at home with my first one, the transition has gone very smoothly. I definitely feel like a part of my new family, who I have been with now for almost three weeks. And because of the interesting relationship between my two host families, my first host dad still picks me up for school every morning, and I see he and his family fairly often.

My new host mom is a dentist, and her office is separated from the rest of the house by a door in the kitchen. I have only accidentally set off the alarm system, which was very intimidating at first, once! One thing that has struck me about Belgium is how many small businesses still exist. Rather than go to a giant supermarket for grocery shopping, my host mom visits the boulangerie for bread, the local farmer's market for vegetables and fish, the butcher for meat, etc. And while in the USA I have never heard of a private dentist's office run out of someone's home, here that is normal. I think that it is great and means that consumer money gets spread around to more places, rather than going all to one giant industry. Also, I love going to the boulangerie and seeing amazing pastry creations that would never exist in the US, like le merveilleux, my host mom's preferred dessert.
 
My host mom's boyfriend is from Morocco, and both he and my host mom are practicing muslims. It has been interesting for me to learn about the muslim religion, which is very centered on peace and respect for others. Also I have gotten to eat amazing moroccan cuisine and learn the complicated technique for making traditional Moroccan tea! One thing I love about Belgium is that  although prior to coming here I would not have imagined it to be a diverse country, a large part of the population have immigrated here from other parts of the world, bringing with them new cultural influences which I think draw Belgium apart from it's neighboring countries like France and Germany. 
While school can be frustrating at times (sometimes I feel that my fellow classmates are trying their very hardest to live up to high school stereotypes), I am now definitely fitting comfortably into Belgian life and I feel fully settled down here. Belgium is my home now.
 
I love taking the train somewhere for a day trip on the weekend with other exchange students- this past friday we went to Brussels to see the hunger games in english! It was very exciting to see a movie without dubbed over french that doesn't match up with the mouths of the actors and actresses. I also love traveling with my host family. This saturday I visited Bruges for the first time with my host mom. The city was already decorated for Christmas, with lights everywhere and an ice skating rink set up in the middle of the city center. We ate warm waffles with nutella and tartiflette, which is an amazing french dish made of potatoes and cheese. Food has become a very important part of my life since being here! If there is good food available, I am happy no matter what. 

Recently in Belgium there have been country wide strikes due to the newly elected government taking office. The new government is cutting down on the pension fund, salaries for professors, and unemployment aid. This has caused a lot of outcry. When there is a strike, the buses and trains shut down for the day and almost no body goes to school or leaves their homes, as the streets are filled with protestors who make it difficult to get around. Belgian politics are very complicated because it is almost like the country is split up into two different ones- the french speaking side and the Flemish speaking side, and they are always warring with each other. Even traveling to a flemish speaking city, like Bruges, is a bit like entering a new country. The differences between the Flemish and the French are pronounced. As a result of all this, I don't understand a lot about the specifics of the government here in Belgium. 

Anyway, to conclude, I am continuing to learn a lot! I am having an amazingly great time, my french is progressing every day, and I cannot thank the rotary enough for giving me this opportunity!!

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